Called to be Friends

In 1982, Howard F. Ahmanson Jr, journeyed to Mississippi to learn more about the ministry of John M. Perkins – the African-American christian leader and activist. Throughout his life John had struggled, at great cost to his welfare and flesh, to alleviate  poverty and bring the gospel and justice to the people in his home state of Mississippi. In return, those he challenged tortured and brutalised him, and murdered his brother.

Howard F. Ahmanson is the reclusive, only son of the man that California Business magazine wrote was the richest man in California (1). In 1982 he was a supporter of Reconstructionism, usually portrayed as an ultraright Christian movement. Later in life, Time magazine listed him as one of the “25 Most Influential Evangelicals in America,” the Los Angeles Times described him as the one who “Bankrolls the Religious Right’s Agenda,” and Max Blumenthal in Salon labelled him “The Avenging Angel of the Christian Right” (2).

When he met Howard in 1982 John Perkins spoke of God’s concern for those who were outcast and castigated, and those evangelicals who had forsaken the gospel’s command to work for the poor and downtrodden. Howard listened and with sympathy because this was a cause close to his heart. He also thought that John had neglected to pay sufficient attention to the negative sides of government programs.

In his shy and stammering manner, Ahmanson challenged some of Perkins’s views. John, with his usual openness to hearing others and to reconciliation, listened to Howard’s concerns. But because of Howard’s frequent pauses and fractured sentences, John didn’t take them that seriously at first. “I didn’t realize that he couldn’t talk as fast as me and I gave him my regular canned answer to the question. But he didn’t give up on me’, he recalled (3). Howard went out to his car, brought backa book on economics, and gave it to John, saying that he hoped he would read it. “And when I read that book:’ John recalls, “I realized that he knew more about the issue than I did.” Also, “I could tell he was trying to be friends'(4).

Around this time, Howard gave to John’s Voice of Calvary ministry the largest individual gift it had ever received. John wondered who this person was that he had just met in passing and who had become his biggest donor. When John and his wife, Vera Mae, made a trip to Southern California, Howard invited them to visit. John remembers vaguely that Howard drove “a Volkswagen convertible.”

And he-he didn’t act like he was rich … because when he invited us to come down and spend a day with him, he was going to show us around, show us where he grew up. You go to the house ona little island where there were John Wayne’s house and his house. Not many houses on the island. We got there about ten dclock in the morning … and he asked us to wait until he got everything together because we were going to spend the day together   And I went out, I looked at a car in the parking lot, see-I knew at this time he was rich   And I probably was looking for a Mercedes, at least, and I went to get in that car, but instead he went to a Volkswagen to move the gas can out of the front seat (5).

They spent the day touring Howard’s old haunts and getting to know each other,and despite theirdeep differences in background, income, and race, these two men began an unlikely and profound lifelong friendship.

(1). Ron Scibilia, “Wealthiest Man”, California Business magazine, January 1985, page 2.

(2). Ralph Frammolino, Ahmanson Heir Bankrolls Religious Right’s Agenda, Los Angeles Times, October 19, 1992; The 25 Most Influential Evangelicals in America”, TIME Magazine, February 7, 2005 issue; Max Blumenthal, Avenging Angel of the Religious Right“, Salon.com, January 6, 2004.

(3) John M. Perkins, “How to Heal America,” public address, audio/visual recording, John & Vera Mae Perkins Foundation Collection.

(4) ibid.

(5) John M. Perkins, interview by Eric John Abrahamson, October 20, 2024, transcript, Called to be Friends Research Files.

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The excerpt above, published here by permission, is from the following book:

Called to be friends


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Paul Marshall is Wilson Distinguished Professor at Baylor University; Research Professor of Political Science; and Senior Fellow at the Religious Freedom Institute as well as at the Hudson Institute, Washington DC. He has also been Visiting Professor at Indonesia’s Sharif Hidayatullah Islamic University.

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